Meet Lillian Ahenkan – the DJ, author, presenter, podcast co-host, style muse and queen of multitasking known as Flex Mami.
In between outfit changes for the new and exclusive Mika Muse launch, we caught up on all things fashion – from forever trends to faux pas.
How would you describe your style?
In three words? Very – Bloody – Good!
When I get ready in the morning, I try to keep it under half an hour. I want something that makes me feel the best, look as good as I can and won’t take me the whole day. I don’t particularly have a routine but I’d say I wear variations of the same thing – like a singlet top, a jacket or outerwear of some sort, and a wide-leg trouser or denim jean on rotation.
If I could only wear one outfit for the rest of my life it would be an oversized, boxy blazer (essential), a ribbed singlet top (like a wife-beater but I don’t like that term), a wide-leg trouser and a sneaker.
What’s your take on fashion rules? Do they still exist?
I used to be the type of person that was like wear what’s flattering for your body type – but then I realised you rule out so many clothes, so my fashion rules are:
1. Don’t wear anything you need to pull at during the day. If you’re wearing a skirt that’s too short and you constantly want to pull it down, or a strap you need to tug at – take it out of your wardrobe. Recycle it. It’s done.
2. If you can’t picture yourself wearing it as soon as you buy it or ten times in a year, then you don’t need.
What trends are you obsessed with right now? And what trends are you ready to say goodbye to?
I like the milkmaid trend still. There’s plenty of ways to reinvent it, like we love a ruffled sleeve, but I feel like we need to experiment with hemlines, like asymmetry and texture. Show me elevated milkmaid!
There’s probably nothing that I wouldn’t wear – everything is pretty bearable, isn’t it? Perhaps a little babydoll dress – with an empire waistline that’s tight at the bust and flares out at the centre – I wouldn’t wear that… actually, maybe I would. I take it back! If it had nice puff sleeves and it was short with a ruffled hemline – that would be cute!
I wouldn’t be sad if I never saw Lycra co-ords again. They’re still cute, but I think the trend has become really uninspiring for me.
What's your favourite look from the Mika Muse collection?
The first look we shot – the shiny, waxy pant with this teddy coat – is something I’d see myself wearing everywhere (pictured above). It’s fun, simple, fits well, comfortable and will take you to different locations. I don’t have different outfits for different occasions – I stopped doing that once I realised it really limits your wardrobe, so I’d wear it anywhere – when I’m out, to work, to sleep…
When my Instagram was way more fashion-centric, I definitely was that type of person that was like I don’t want to wear the same thing twice! I can’t take a picture in this outfit so why would I wear it today?! But now I’m a big outfit repeater – it’s not what people follow me for now. They like the outfit but they’re not here to be reinspired so I feel like I’ve got the ability to wear what I want.
What’s your advice for anyone looking to social media for fashion inspiration?
I look to Scandinavian and Nordic bloggers on Instagram for style inspiration – they do it really well. It doesn’t ever feel done or overdone.
My only advice: try everything once. It’s unrealistic to govern yourself by what you see your friends wearing, what you see your followers wearing, what you see who you follow wearing. Just try everything once and be comfortable with appreciating fashion as a creative output.
Worst case scenario: you look terrible and you repress the memory and everyone else forgets as well. Best case scenario: you look great and everyone compliments you. Your throwback outfits, especially the ones you do regret, are funny! They paint a picture of a time – I remember I was looking at a photo of me in high school and everyone had that weird quiff – it was bizarre! Who could’ve prepared us for that? Where did we even see that?!
Now we’re past that point of clothes being completely functional and for warmth and security, use that privilege and try something new...
